exscpt that...there are other hormones besides sex type ones...once the horniness is gone (or you've tasted of the sandwich meat enough..whatever)..those 'mystery' hormones start being noticed...
like the cP says...sometims they go to bitchdom fast like, sometimes dey dont...
Oboes. Fuck oboes. Evilness. She wanted to be a super oboe player. At least that's what she told me.
Uh... moving away to another state. That one's happened a few times. It helps though if you realize that the girl you're with isn't all that intelligent or interesting and you really just wanted to be close to somebody that was nice.
After a few years you may realize that you're never going to be enough for the person you're with and, on top of that, she wants something serious and you want to ditch class, smoke pot, and play video games with your friends. She's busy graduating college and thinking about jobs. Bad combination.
You get fed up with her fucking her ex-boyfriend, who's one of your good friends, every time he comes into town. I mean, it's not THAT bad, but it's kind of annoying. Later, she sleeps with 2 of your other friends.
You move to another state, but on top of that, she gets weird when you live together. She thinks that masturbation is a personal attack on her and that porn causes sexual problems. She's also like a dead fish in bed and refuses to masturbate in front of you.
Just kidding, I made all those up. It's always your fault.
Posts: 1639 | Location: Madison, WI | Registered: July 27, 2003
boredom/predictability (or "satisfaction," as Ty called it)
When a relationship becomes routine, it is no longer fun, IE once you start spending your every waking minute w/one another, and it is expected that any time one of you has free time it will be spent w/the other, it is on the fast track to DEATH [fast track for some people meaning marriage=>kids=>hold-it-together=>divorce-in-15-years].
Just don't let it become routine, and maintain seperate lives - as in, just because you are dating, do not magically become a coupled-entity (ala "Bennifer"). Try to make time spent together QUALITY time, rather than simply lounging around in someone's room, hanging out on their bed/etc.
It's pretty well just something you have to do ALL THE TIME. Even in marriage, it's important to maintain individuality/personal space.
A lot of guys, after a relationship becomes "long-term," change the way they've been acting around their biatch, 'cause they're panicked to realize that THEY'RE IN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP and they actually CARE ABOUT the person they're dating.
This panicked behavior - the result of a lack of confidence - is generally a pretty good way to kill a relationship..(since the girl is used to her boyfriend being COOL and SECURE, rather than a blubbering tool who's totally emotionally insecure)
ps - initially - I was really perplexed by the whole concept of 'psycho girls' -- I guess it's a good thing Ive forgotten most of the bad stuff...but it seemed so important to me back then... funny
Posts: 677 | Location: atop a staxed volt | Registered: November 14, 2003
quote:Originally posted by saline: A girlfriend once asked me what/who I think about when we have sex.
"You can be honest, I won't get mad."
I was honest.
Don't do this!
The same thing happened to me man...that's why Medha has made me sleep on the couch for the last few years. I am a sucker for hot, sexy, famous people. I am such a scene whore.
quote:Originally posted by danrounds: OH..forgot "confindence"!
A lot of guys, after a relationship becomes "long-term," change the way they've been acting around their biatch, 'cause they're panicked to realize that THEY'RE IN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP and they actually CARE ABOUT the person they're dating.
This panicked behavior - the result of a lack of confidence - is generally a pretty good way to kill a relationship..(since the girl is used to her boyfriend being COOL and SECURE, rather than a blubbering tool who's totally emotionally insecure)
Crap, I had a feeling that would be bad....
I think i can stop before I start getting to bad. She was happy I was "opening up"....she's done the same so.hmmm....she was attracted to me to me because of my mellowness and guitar ability. (I hope she never meets any of you, she will leave me for jeff left )
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